The Prelude
This is the first/official Virtual Fashion Letter and I’m excited to answer this question because I LOVE skirts! Since this is the very first Virtual Fashion Letter lets back track a little bit so you can learn about what it is and how to get involved. The Virtual Fashion Letter is based on questions that people have sent me and/or interesting questions that I’ve come across while researching. I typically like to feature the Virtual Fashion Letter after I have completed a series of articles. This allows me to get through the series without interruption and it also gives those who have questions time to get their questions in. So if you have a fashion question that you would like answered, please direct message me on Instagram or send me an email at assist@styledbybreyana.com. Now that you have a full understanding of how these letters work…I present to you today’s Virtual Fashion Letter “How Do You Make Long Skirts Cute?”
The Virtual Fashion Letter:
How Do You Make Long Skirts Cute?
Ahhh skirts! At one point I grew up not liking them. I come from a background where majority of the women on my dad’s side of the family wear skirts for every occasion, in every season, and all day long. This is what I feel contributed to my dislike for skirts as a child (the main reason being I didn’t want to be trapped in the routine of wearing a skirt everyday and luckily I wasn’t thanks to my mom). However now, I love skirts and cannot get enough of them. Because of what I seen and went through, I know how hard it can be to style and get used to wearing a longer skirt. Heck, for a period of time I thought it was dang near impossible to attractively style a longer skirt, but knowing what I know now…I couldn’t be more incorrect. So I am super excited to share the things that I’ve learned along the way so that you don’t fall into the same fixed mindset that I fell into. Lets get into it!
Rule #1: Make Sure To Select Colors, Fabrics, and Patterns That You Like.
Neutrals will forever hold a special place in my heart and having a few neutrals in your skirt collection is essential. Although, if I had to give a percentage, I would say that 10% of your closet should consist of neutral, solid colored skirts and 90% should have texture, print, and/or bold colors. Why? Because some the greatest outfits (especially ones that include long skirts) have texture, print, and/or color. These elements bring excitement and awe to your outfit making it more attractive, trendy, and mesmerizing. That’s not to say that you can’t achieve the same results with neutral colors (in fact, if you like them, focus more on texture and print to give the skirt that “wow” factor). However, keep in mind, that a long skirt in a bright color or a fun/unique print will always capture someone’s attention first.
Rule #2: Make Sure The Skirt Showcases Your Style.
One of the main reasons I didn’t like skirts as a child was because I didn’t see any that fit my style or catered to my taste. I always saw those long, loose, and oddly fitted blue jean skirts growing up, so I thought that would be the end all be all for me. Now that I’ve been exposed to more and I know that I’m not limited to just those skirts (thank the Lord!), I can choose one that’s more aligned with my style. In terms of style, I know that I’m a maxi and midi type of girl when it comes to skirts that are longer in length. So those are the styles that I look for when I’m shopping.
For you though, before buying anything (or anything else), it’s super important to know what type of style you like. Since we’re talking about long skirts that would look something like this: do you prefer midi or maxi length? Do you prefer neutral, muted, or bright colors? Are prints your thing? If not, do you like texture (for example: I like leather skirts so that would be considered texture)? If you’re having trouble answering any of these questions...take a look at what you have the most of in your closet and that should give you an idea of what styles you typically gravitate towards.
Once you crack the code and find the skirt that showcases your unique style, you’ll be well on your way to having a ton of cute outfits that always (or mostly) include the long skirts in your closet. And if you can’t crack the code on your own and need a professional set of eyes, then I’d love to assist! I offer a package called “The Archetype Experience” that helps you find your personal and professional style and in the process I can give you clarity on how to build a streamlined skirt collection that feels like you.
Rule #3: Bring Your Skirt To Life By Styling It Well.
When I think back on those times in my childhood where I would always see those horrible blue jean skirts, I realize that they were “horrible” to me because they were never styled in a fashionable way. I believe that if I was exposed to a more stylish way of wearing them, I probably would’ve have jumped on the long jean skirt train myself or at least given them a better reputation. This brings me to rule number three…bring your skirt to life by styling it well. When you pair your long skirt with the right colors, fabrics, designs, and accessories you can transform it into something amazing.
Here, let me give you a few suggestions. Some really cute options you can use to jazz up your long skirt are: tennis shoes, flats, sandals, heels, and even boots. Tennis shoes are great for sporty, causal, and urban vibes. It’s great to create this look when you are running errands for the day and it’s also a great concept for a photo shoot (bonus tip: make sure that the tennis shoes you select flow well with the rest of the outfit). On the other hand flats, sandals, and heels are great for creating a classy skirt aesthetic. These types of shoes styled with your long skirt are great for attending functions or meeting up with friends. Finally, let’s discuss long skirts with boots. This type of style is more for those who aren’t afraid to step out of their comfort zone and enjoy creating premium outfits. This style is super classy, super feminine, and can be very artistic when executed properly. I recommend wearing this type of outfit to social events (ex: brunch) or a fashion/art related event.
If the style tips that I just mentioned to you sound a bit intimidating, challenging, or hard to implement on your own, that’s okay I have two recommendations that I think will help. The first recommendation is using the Google search engine as a guide. Once you figure out your sense of style, you can start googling outfit inspiration (it’s as simple as typing in “long skirt style inspiration” in the Google search engine). Then as you get more comfortable, you can narrow down your search as needed (ex: long blue jean skirt style inspiration). My second recommendation is hiring a professional wardrobe stylist if you want more personalized advice or you need help getting started.
Bonus: Long Skirt Style Inspo
The Conclusion
Thank you for writing me this question and I hope that I was able to help you out in more ways than one. Remember, always pick styles and pieces that make you feel comfortable and confident, because at the end of the day that’s what having great style is all about and ultimately that’s what’s going to make your long skirt more appealing. Lastly, if you need a starter skirt for your long skirt collection, then I want to personally invite you to check out our “Bella Rose Pink Vinyl Skirt” (available in regular and plus sizing). It’s a cute, rose pink midi skirt that pairs well with sneakers and heels plus the color is absolutely gorgeous so it will definitely liven up your outfit and make it more appealing.
Have You Been Struggling With Making Long Skirts Cute?
This letter was extremely fun and satisfying. What’s more is I'm happy that I had the opportunity to help someone and I am just as excited to help others as well. So now I want to know is this a question that you’ve been asking too? If so, did this article give you the solutions you were looking for? Let me know in the comment section below and don’t be afraid to submit your own question using the two contact methods in the “Prelude” section. We’ll talk soon!
